DON’T BE A LOSER! THIS IS HOW TO BE POPULAR

If you are a lonely girl, always sitting on the corner of the class, and lunch in the backyard of the school, don’t let it any longer. It must be sucks to always alone, no friend and always be the victim of bullying. Why is that happen? All because you are the lowest strata of the food chain. They eat you because you are the weakest. They think they strong than you. It’s all just an emotional games. But don’t freak out. Get ready to change it all! This is how to be popular!

What is ‘popular’ actually? Popular is a condition where everybody around you gets attention to you. This is a condition where everyone you know and you don’t know treat you well. Popular mean is known by a lot of people and liked by many people. A few days ago, there’s a friend of mine ask me how to be popular, at least how to make her be remembered. Let’s discuss it.

Let me tell you, only there are two things could make you popular. Yeah girls, it’s only two. First, this is the easiest, you have to be BEAUTIFUL. Ohh, hell yeah! Who doesn’t wanna get close to a beautiful girl? A beautiful girl is a desire. All can be done with only the beauty of your face. Well, this is the fact. Just look around. Let’s analyze! Most of the popular girl has beautiful face. Believe me, I’ve held an opinion poll on instagram, and the result is 71% agree with my statement.

A beauty can be achieved by treatment. Let’s say that you are not beautiful enough but you are doing treatment diligently. Okay, that’s good. Every beauty girl always does treatment as well. Treatment is an important thing for a girl. It’s not a must, but if you wanna compete with another girl, you should do this. “Treatment spent a lot of costs, I have no money, wouldn’t I be beautiful?”. Everybody calm! But hold on, I’m not saying that treatment spent a lot of costs. Why? Because you can get natural treatment. You can make a beauty treatment from natural ingredients. I’ll share the recipe of natural beauty treatment on another post.

Then the second is, if you are not beautiful, this is the greatest way for you to be popular. Be ATTRACTIVE! “oh come on, attractive is the part of beauty!”. Girl, your thinking is too narrow. Attractive mean, you should have something inside you to interest another people. You should have something to make them accept you. And to be attractive you should have something called establishment. You should have a strong establishment. By the strong establishment, you can accept yourself  how the way you are. A people who make a good friend with themselves has the good establishment. They are sturdy, can bypass the storm just like pass the breeze. A establishment builds a strong character. Something we can’t see, but we can feel it. A Strong character can influence people around. The influence here means every single person nearby you focus on you. That’s what we called the aura. By that, everybody around you can accept you so well. Brace yourself. Not every single person can do this. When you read this theory, I’m sure that you can imagine how to do this perfectly. But practice is harder than what we’re thinking. So, convince yourself that you can do it. Do it slowly till no one realizes that there is something different about you. Because a sudden transformation would just make people gives too much attention to you, but commonly is not good attention. So just enjoy your transformation. Do it slowly without surprising anyone till they accept you and not bullying you without conscious. But if you wanna make this easy, go find another society, different environment. Easy to start in the new place.

Is it works? YES. It’s happening in a real world. There is a girl, she’s not beautiful. But she’s popular. She has so many friends. She surrounded by people who always gives her smile and always ask how is she today. The thing she has is something we just discussed, ATTRACTIVE. She is fun to be around. She is not being anyone else, only be whatever she is. But she can mingle with others. That’s her good point, that’s why people accept her, that’s why people like her.

When you read this, maybe, you expect to be really popular. But my question is, why? Why do you want to be popular? Why everyone wants to be popular? This is the paradigm that develops in the society. What I wanna say is, a popular is not our main needed. Some people want to be popular because of    they thirsty for being famous. But let me tell you, there are a lot of fake in the fame. Famous or not, popular or not, let yourself surrounded by happiness. Ask yourself, are popular what you really want? Are popular your true happiness?